Do you have any rules that guide your life, and what you do?
The NCIS character Leroy Jethro Gibbs has his rules. (Though he recently got rid of 10)
Clint Eastwood has his rules.
GoDaddy founder Bob Parsons has some.
Even The Doctor has a set of rules. (He does add the warning that good men don’t need rules and that it wasn’t the time to find out why he had so many, in the episode A Good Man Goes To War Season 6 Episode 7).
Do you have rules?
If not, maybe it is time to write some.